If you’re still a fan/reader of How to beat self-defeat, I’m glad you’re still hangin’ with me! After 3 wonderful years of writing and answering questions on the blog, I took a bit of a hiatus… Not because I didn’t enjoy serving… I wanted to find a “greater” way to serve you. I’m not quite […]
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Happy New Year’s Eve! I think it fitting to end the current format of the blog with this Robert Frost quote. So I’m going through… Not sure what there is on the other side, however rest assured, I will continue to share my deep and passionate love of beating self defeat with you, in 2025.
Hi Chris, I’ve been doing affirmations and gratifications for over 2 months now. But still I am filled with negativity, confusion, feeling stuck. Can you help? Signed, Feeling stuck ~~~~~~~~~~ Aw feeling stuck…been there! Since I love learning and enjoy the experience of growing spiritually, I can start to “lean on” affirmations and the like
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Ever notice how nothing lasts forever? Not a good day, not a bad day… It (life) is always in flow and we find that nothing is permanent. I can tell you on those bad days, I take immense comfort in knowing a good one is heading my way. I hope you do, too.
What a great reminder that as long as we’re facing forward, moving forward and looking forward, the darkness will trail us. And…we get a Vitamin D boost as a bonus! 🙂
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Tell me Chris, How do you stay away from condemning yourself when you have made an honest mistake? Signed, Mistakes made ~~~~~~~~~~ Well mistakes made…the operative word in your question is…”honest.” So you and I both know that EVERYONE makes mistakes. Some make them intentionally…and those folks we’d do well to steer clear of. Some
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I think Einstein was on to much more than just the theory of relativity. Honoring the space you take up on the planet, as a miracle in itself, is better than any theory…ever.
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You know, actually the whole world IS blind…and those seeking to impress are wasting their time. How can I confidently say that? Because everyone is thinking about their own way in the world…not yours. They’re focused on what they have to do next, say next, think next, next, next, next. There’s no room in there
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Hello Chris, I am a people pleaser and I want to transform myself out of this behavior. I have reservations because I am in a relationship of 10 years, and I am tired of trying to please everyone all the time. I am looking for suggestions to what I should do. Signed, Not pleased ~~~~~~~~~~
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Such a powerful (and lovely) way to express this concept…
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