In a former life, I worked for Big Blue – aka IBM. To say your reputation precedes you is an understatement, when meeting with customers. There was an “expectation” of professionalism that rivaled every competitor. Today, customers have different expectations of those who want to sell/offer solutions to their business challenges. It is far less […]
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During World War II, the prevailing them for troops was “loose lips sink ships.” This reminder was designed to keep the enemy from knowing their movements and important plans. In like fashion, being to eager to share all the bells and whistles of your product or service, early in the sales process, can sink a
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Putting ALL of your cards on the table is a noble approach as a sales professional, right? In fact, you might use this approach to build integrity and trust with your customers. However, there are places in your life and career where concealing your intentions will serve the greater good. Let this next story spark
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You know your friends, right? You also know your enemies, yes? Or do you? Certainly in ever evolving relationships, one can become friend or foe, given the best circumstances. In either case, it is wise to KNOW who to welcome into your lair. Whether they be lion or kitty. Be sure you know…and act accordingly.
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Law #1 of the 48 Laws of Power: Never outshine the master Here’s the thing… Charisma and grace are sacred skills for sales professionals to use to connect with prospects and clients. In some cases, they can open the door to greater opportunities, better than your product or service. This Law of Power story serves
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As we move into 2026, it’s time to take control of your ability to beat self defeat…and I’m here to help you do so… One of my most FAVORITE books on the planet is… The 48 Laws of Power by Robert Greene. I’ve shared this book with clients and partners who value lessons they can:
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So…it’s been a while since I shared my thoughts on this blog (now renamed Mindset Mastery…but more on that in a minute). When I heard that 2025 was the year of the Snake, I immediately said…”makes perfect sense.” It wasn’t an easy year for me and for most folks I know. I saw a lot
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If you’re still a fan/reader of How to beat self-defeat, I’m glad you’re still hangin’ with me! After 3 wonderful years of writing and answering questions on the blog, I took a bit of a hiatus… Not because I didn’t enjoy serving… I wanted to find a “greater” way to serve you. I’m not quite
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Happy New Year’s Eve! I think it fitting to end the current format of the blog with this Robert Frost quote. So I’m going through… Not sure what there is on the other side, however rest assured, I will continue to share my deep and passionate love of beating self defeat with you, in 2025.
Hi Chris, I’ve been doing affirmations and gratifications for over 2 months now. But still I am filled with negativity, confusion, feeling stuck. Can you help? Signed, Feeling stuck ~~~~~~~~~~ Aw feeling stuck…been there! Since I love learning and enjoy the experience of growing spiritually, I can start to “lean on” affirmations and the like
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