Conversations

Hello Chris, Here’s one for you. I try my best to focus on my goals. I took the time to identify them, write them down, look at them weekly, sometimes daily. So I am really committed and attached to achieving them. But somehow I get distracted and go looking for something else to do. You […]

Hey Chris, Why is it every time I’m on a zoom call, or in a meeting with people, I get butterflies in my stomach when I want to speak? Yet, when I’m just talking with someone, I just talk. But here it’s like I’m afraid to just speak out…even when I KNOW I have something

Hi Chris, As I think about what I want to do or be this year, I see a number of coaches, mentors doing what looks like a lot of fun. They are speaking, traveling, writing books, YouTube, TikToc, Facebook and Instagram videos. I see them everywhere! I look at them and I want to be

Ugh Chris, I sure could use your thoughts on this one. I know we’re supposed to be positive to attract positive, right? You know, that’s the secret of the movie, The Secret.” Well I think they left something out of that “secret” like how to deal with the flip side of those thoughts! What the

What’s up Chris! It’s a new year and I see so many posts on social media about setting new goals and pursuing one’s passion. You know what I’m passionate about? Weekends! Love me some weekends… I just want to unwind, not think about work for 30 hours and just kick back doin’ my thing. Yet,

Dear Chris, I wonder if you can help here. I often struggle with “chit chat” when meeting people. I just don’t know where to start and I’m just freaking uncomfortable with it. Got any suggestions? Signed, Sweaty palms ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~ Hey there sweaty palms! Chill out my friend, I got you! Back in the day, I

Dear Chris, I often struggle with asking for what I really want. What’s THAT about? Signed, Tongue tied in a bow ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~   Hi Tongue tied in a bow,   The GOOD news…you’re not alone. The GREAT news…you’re not alone. Even skilled politicians fail to ask for what they TRULY want. For the very same

Hey Chris, It’s a new year. I want to find a way to be so much happier this year than last and finally experience  real success in my life. What can I do to get started? Signed, Ready-Set-Go ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~ Happy New Year Ready-Set-Go!   It’s the most wonderful time of the year…again! A fresh start..an