Chris, How do I stop the negative fearful thoughts I have? I know it’s impacting my business and my sleep at night. Signed, Fear-less Thinker? ~~~~~~~~~~ Welcome fear-less thinker! My first suggestion is that you remove the word “stop” from your approach. When we try to “stop” something, we are resisting what we’re being given. …
Hey Chris, How can I be more assertive when I am at work? Even though I always knew that people aren’t always trustworthy yet I still act very passive and submissive just to avoid trouble. But this causes me to get walked all over. I am the type of person people can walk all over …
Chris, I would love your opinion on this! If a person currently feels disoriented in life, what is the moment when they should seek help? Seeking help can mean asking questions, looking for a coach, or support in general. Thank you so much!!! Signed, Desperately seeking direction ~~~~~~~~~~ Good question, desperately seeking direction! I actually …
Let me ask you Chris, What does identity mean to you and how do you create one that empowers you? Signed, Who am I, really? ~~~~~~~~~~ Who am I, really – I feel you. I can remember as a teenager asking that very question…who am I? Heck, I’ve asked myself in each decade of my …
Hi Chris, What advice would you give to those who are struggling to find their passion? Signed, Passionately struggling ~~~~~~~~~~ Hmmm passionately struggling… I’ll be blunt. If you’re struggling, then it’s not a passion you’re looking for…it’s an answer to a question in your mind. One that you think you MUST answer in order to …
Tell me Chris, what is the difference between a vision and a goal; and is it valuable to know and use both? Signed, Where’s the true value? ~~~~~~~~~~ Hey where’s the true value! Let me give you an analogy… A vision vs a goal is like being “farsighted” vs “nearsighted”. One is farther out and …
Hey Chris, Hoping to get some advice here. I’ve been on my self-growth journey for about a year now. I’ve done a number of meditation programs, read some books, worked with a therapist and actually have been able to make some meaningful changes in my life. Having said that, I have been feeling a bit …
Have you heard this Chris? People often advise doing difficult activities first, but wouldn’t you agree that doing simple tasks first might make difficult ones easier? Signed, Where’s the easy button ~~~~~~~~~~ You know what, easy button, I HAVE heard that! It goes along with this interesting, oft-told story about how to fill a glass …
You know Chris, I have had to work on this over many years, reading, listening to podcasts to help me overcome my shyness and increase my confidence. I would love to hear what you have done to improve, and what challenges you faced or are still struggling with. Signed, Ongoing learner ~~~~~~~~~~ Thank you for …
Hi Chris, Let me ask you… Can you become addicted to negative thoughts and stress? I heard that in a podcast and it hit me. Why do you think this can happen? Signed, Tied up in knots ~~~~~~~~~~ Tied up in knots…my answer is… HELL YES! Sorry to yell…I just wanted to be sure I …
