While it may be “out of your comfort zone,” staying in it can be soul and mind-numbing. Today, you’ll find more people who want to go with the crowd, so that they are not called out for being different. (politics, masking, vaccinations, etc…) However, in some cases it could mean illness, hefty medical bills and […]
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Let me ask you Chris, Do you ever feel like you stepped onto the train of life and it’s leading you in a direction you know you do not want to go ? You want to step off but you are so scared. You don’t want to lose the comfort of the train by stepping
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Hi Chris, I can tell by reading your blog posts that you’re pretty “connected.” It’s something I’ve struggled with most of my life and I’m just ready to get off the struggle bus. I want to know and believe that I can trust my heart, my body, my intuition, my inner knowing. Can you teach
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What’s up Chris! I was scrolling through Facebook and saw this question: What is the biggest obstacle preventing you from achieving your goals!? For me, I responded, it’s waiting for my ex to move out. I just want the bandaid ripped off and then I can truly move on and achieve the goals I have
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Yeah, so Chris… I didn’t grow up in a very vocal family. Lots of whispers and secrets. I was taught not to allow my emotions to get the “better of me.” You know, hold it in at all costs. It screwed up some really good relationships with women, who didn’t know I really cared and
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Gotta agree, right? When we tie our happiness to people or things, we know full well, that gives our power away. Goals, that we’ve defined — not that others have given us, are well within our span of control. And the achievement of said goals, is fully ours to celebrate. Start with a goal to
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Hey Chris, Can you tell me how I can be more assertive when I am around people? Even though I always knew that people aren’t always trustworthy yet I still act very passive and submissive just to avoid trouble. But this causes me to get walked all over. I am the type of person people
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We often look at the people around us and what they’re doing, accomplishing, succeeding at… Then we recalibrate our actions and intentions because they “might” beat us at our game. Paul Graham’s quote is brilliant in its simplicity. If someone IS going to surpass you, why shouldn’t it be YOU? No word games here… Simple
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Yeah, I’m sure Michelangelo would NOT like to be called Mikey. However, his approach to discovering the beauty that is within is profound… You cannot pop out of the box, or marble for that matter, as a finished product. I used to hear Judge Judy say she’s “fully cooked” meaning that she had lived a
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Damn it Chris, I continue to struggle with setting boundaries and following through if a boundary is violated. I’m tired of having to redraw another line instead. What can I do to end this cycle? Signed, A line in the sand ~~~~~~~~~~ Hey a line in the sand, Thank you for this conversation… I’m sure
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